CalmDentist

How to choose a dentist when you're nervous

Finding the right practice makes a bigger difference than anything else. Here's a simple way to choose, whether you need a gentle approach or full sedation.

1. Decide what kind of help you want

Some nervous patients mostly need a patient, unhurried dentist who explains everything. Others know they'll need sedation to get through treatment. Knowing which you are narrows the list quickly.

If you're not sure, start with a practice that talks openly about nervous patients and offers sedation, so you have the option later.

2. Read what the practice says about anxious patients

Practices that care for nervous patients usually say so clearly: longer first appointments, a chat before any treatment, breaks whenever you need them. Vague lines about "a relaxing environment" tell you less.

On our practice pages we quote the practice's own words and link to where we found them, so you can judge for yourself.

3. Check the sedation options and who provides them

IV sedation suits most adults with strong dental anxiety; inhalation sedation (gas and air) is milder and common for children; oral sedation is a tablet before your visit. Ask whether sedation is given by the dentist or by a separate sedationist, and whether it's available for check-ups or only for treatment.

4. Compare prices the fair way

Private sedation is usually charged by the hour on top of the treatment. A low "from" price may not include X-rays, the hygienist or a follow-up, so ask for a written estimate that covers everything.

Our practice pages show each practice's published prices next to what's typical locally. That's a guide to the going rate, not a measure of quality.

5. Look at the CQC report

Every dental practice in England is registered and inspected by the Care Quality Commission (CQC). Each practice page here links to its CQC page, where you can read inspection reports.

6. Ring before you book

Tell the receptionist you're nervous. Ask whether you can have a first visit that's just a chat, how long appointments are, and what happens if you need to stop. How they answer the phone tells you a lot.

Start with your town

76 practices in our listings say they offer sedation. See them all, or pick your town:

Sussex: Brighton · Burgess Hill · Crawley · East Grinstead · Haywards Heath · Horsham · Hove

Surrey: Banstead · Camberley · Caterham · Chertsey · Cobham · Cranleigh · Dorking · Egham · Epsom · Esher · Farnham · Godalming · Guildford · Horley · Leatherhead · Oxted · Redhill · Reigate · Staines-upon-Thames · Walton-on-Thames · Weybridge · Woking

South London: Kingston upon Thames · Sutton

Want to know how we decide what to show? How we choose and check practices. This page is general information, not medical advice.